No One Loves Me!!!

"No One Loves Me" ~ A very famous sentence said by many people. Every 1 person of 10 people says that "No one Loves Me". What is the real problem for such people? Lets try to find out!!!

What is the Real Problem

This thing is felt due to something which is called as watching and comparing our lives with others. There is a conditioning of our brain in the very small age of comparing things. When we are small we compare the things of us and others. When we grow up we take the things to a next level which is comparing the type of life, the love that is shown from our people and love shown to them by their people. 

In this comparison we actually forget to observe the beauty of our life. There are different kinds of people - The ones who show their love through words and The ones who show their love through their actions. There is a distance of miles and too much of difference between both the kinds of people. The people who show love through words, not necessary that their actions will prove it. The things which are not proven by actions are never true. On the other hand when people prove their love through their actions have no need to show it off. Observe this reality very carefully. When we are busy comparing our lives with others we never observe our own life and that is the problem. There is no need to explain the solution of this problem. 

What to do if it is Genuine

Now the problem arises when there is no love shown through words nor actions. If genuinely people don't love you, firstly find out the reason. 'Why do people hate you?' When you find the reason, rectify whether is it your mistake? 

If it is your mistake accept it, apologize for it and correct it by putting your own efforts... If it is not your mistake, What can you do?? 

A Change in the Thinking Process

When it is not mistake of yours, there are situations when it is not even the mistake of others. So you cannot blame others. Then What to do? 

It needs a change in the thinking process.Normally, we think that not being loved by anyone is too bad. But as we change this thinking process it becomes like 'No one loves me but what is the need to be loved by someone else?'. You are there to Love Yourself. 

You are made up of your body. Body is made up of organs. Organs are made up of tissues. Tissues are made up of cells. Cells are made up of atoms. So, You are made up of atoms. Also we are living on Earth. Earth is a planet of solar system. Solar system is a part of Milky Way Galaxy. Milky way Galaxy is a part of this whole Universe. So, Ultimately we can surely say that The Universe is also made up of atoms. 

If you are made up of atoms and the whole Universe is also made up of atoms, then what is the difference between You and the Universe. Exactly, there is no difference between You and The Universe. You are the Universe and The Universe is You. So if you Love Yourself, will it be wrong to say that The Whole Universe Loves You? And if The Whole Universe Loves you, How is it possible that 'No one Loves You'. Perfect! It is Impossible!!

If you understood this deep thought process, you will - no doubt - Live a Better Life!!!